OK. Here goes. You might wanna grab a glass of wine ( a nice Columbian Reisling sounds good to me) and hold on tight. This could get bumpy!!
First I need to make a public apology. In order to follow this through you might want to read the first part of
THIS. Go ahead. I will wait for ya!!
Ok, youre back.
So, let me start by saying that I, in no way, meant to hurt anyones feelings or make anyone upset. The football coaches and families are a HUGE part of our lives from August through November. And beyond, really. Let me also say that we were totally thrilled when one of our close personal friends was given the Head Coaches position this year. A friend who is not only a great guy, a great father and a good friend but someone who adores my son and treats him like his own.
We have been with most of the coaches for 3 years now. I should also say I am a female ( for those not following my blog) and I am not athletically inclined... AT ALL! So that being said I really have no business talking trash about anything sports related. And I didnt mean to. I apologize if certain people took offense or even felt hurt or challenged by my comments about the coaching staff or the boys "not having fun." I was truly speaking as a parent and I was venting out of frustration after a particularly bad night in which my son stated he " was quittin' football because he was not having fun anymore. "
I have spoken to one particular person regarding this blog post and I hope I was able to get my point across without sounding like a bitchy parent(
dont you hate those?) or a whining mother. I truly LOVE this team and LOVE this sport and I just want to make sure these kids are enjoying it as much as I know the coaches are enjoying teaching them, and as much as we, the parents, are enjoying watching them play!
Ok? Nuff said I hope!!!
On to the nasty, mean, hurtful, vengeful, disturbing, immature, meant to piss me off, anonymous comment I deleted from
THIS post!!
I totally wont tell you exactly what this hateful, jealous, pompous idiot actually said BUT I will say it was NOT all lies. It was mostly truth however let me say that I chose to write the post about Michelle and Todd as a TRIBUTE to a woman I admired, looked up to and most importantly loved with all my heart. She was and always will be family. I did not rehash the horrific details of this terrible accident, I did not give unnecessary details in my post as that was not relevant. It was, as I said...
a tribute. I chose to limit information and clearly stated so in my post, that I would not give details as it was too painful to rehash. Also... This family has children. These children have internet access and know how to use it. They know I blog. I wanted this post to be something they could read at any time in their lives and be joyful for the parents that loved them so much. I wanted this post to be inspiring to each of them, as they are the most important things right now. That is my job... to help them mature and grow into the amazing adults their parents would have wanted them to be.
So...
TO ANONYMOUS:You are a coward, first, for not even signing your name to the comment. Also, did you think I would actually post private, personal information on my blog about this? Did you actually think at all before typing out such a heartless comment. Did you stop and think that Morgan, Tristan or Liam would read what you wrote. I am assuming given the information you divulged in your comment, that you either knew Todd and Michelle somewhat personally.. or you had some reason to be privy to certain information.. or you have nothing better to do with your time than to search the internet for information.
What you wrote not only was hurtful but also not appropriate for the blog post that you commented on. And are you ignorant enough to actually believe that information you provided was 1.) going to save future lives? I think NOT! and 2.) not something that the close family members and friends already knew? If thats what you think you obviously did NOT know Michelle that well. Her close family and friends knew quite a bit and you obviously do not know the extent of the Deberadinis Family Ties. We are CLOSE. Super close. So the people that matter, the ones who stuck around after the death, after the wake, after the funeral, those of us who give our time to clean the house out, who help with birthday parties and transporting the kids, taking the boys for the weekend... those of us who have not walked away from this family but have given so much of our time to help this transition be as easy as possible.. we are the ones that know the truth. We are the ones that knew this couple and we are the ones who dont care about those details... we are the ones celebrating the lives of Michelle and Todd and choosing not to ignore the truths but focusing on whats important!!
Go find someone else to pick on or mind your own damn business.
There... That said... I want to thank all of you who are also friends from Facebook for commenting to me after I vented about this anonymous commenter who ruined my night and made me rehash a most horrific time in my life. Thank goodness I have comment approval on my blog.. thats all I have to say!!
** Weight loss and workout update***
For those of you that asked... I am down 10 pounds with another 10 to go. The 30 day shred is over BUT I am working out everyday.. giving myself weekends off... doing the No More Trouble Zones DVD also by Jillian Michaels. I am alternating in 30 Day Shred every few days! I feel great and am down a pants size... still going strong. Thanks for all the encouragement!!!
Night all!!